Dick in My Nightstand

The song Dick in My Nightstand by Danae Hays has become a viral sensation, blending country comedy with a bold, humorous take on independence. Released on July 4, 2024, as a single, the song’s cheeky lyrics and catchy melody have resonated with fans, particularly on TikTok, where Hays teased it before its official drop, amassing over 30 million views for related content. One notable trivia tidbit is the song’s unexpected inspiration: Hays has stated in comments on social media that it was written a year prior to her public split from her wife, Mandie Kaii, and was loosely inspired by her mother’s experiences, not her own personal life. However, fans on platforms like Reddit have speculated otherwise, with some believing it hints at her divorce, fueling online debates. The song’s humor shines through lines like “It doesn’t get mad at me / When I wanna watch Grey’s Anatomy,” which fans quote enthusiastically on X, praising its relatable wit. Another fun fact is the lyric “Dammit, the batteries are dead,” which Hays revealed on Instagram was a last-minute addition after a friend jokingly suggested it during a writing session, adding to the song’s playful tone.

Despite its popularity, Dick in My Nightstand has sparked some controversy. On Reddit, users have criticized Hays for not clearly dispelling rumors that the song is about her ex-wife’s alleged infidelity, with some fans defending Mandie Kaii, who has publicly stated she did not cheat. Hays addressed this indirectly on TikTok, emphasizing the song’s comedic intent and its roots in fictional storytelling. The track’s production also stands out, with heavy autotune that some fans on X have debated, arguing it’s intentional for the comedic effect, while others compare Hays’ vibe to country artist Terri Clark, though they note the vocal processing makes it distinct. The song’s music video, shared on YouTube, features Hays in a cowboy hat, leaning into her Southern roots, and has been praised for its low-budget charm, with fans on Facebook calling it “perfectly Sharon Jean,” referencing her popular TikTok character.

Danae Hays began her career in a small Alabama town, where she grew up under the pressure of perfection, competing in pageants and excelling as a softball player, eventually playing for the University of Alabama. Her early life was marked by challenges, including being sent to conversion therapy at age 9 after coming out to her mother, as she shared in a 2022 LGBTQNation interview. Before fame, Hays worked as a realtor, but her comedic talents emerged during the 2020 pandemic when she joined TikTok. Her debut video, a storytime captioned “why did I do that?!,” marked the start of her rise, followed by a 2021 prank call video that went viral with over 25 million views. Her character Sharon Jean, a Southern stereotype with a thick accent, became a fan favorite, helping her amass 3 million TikTok followers and 707,000 on Instagram. Hays’ humor, rooted in her Southern upbringing, caught the attention of country star Luke Bryan, who collaborated with her to prank call his mother, a moment she described as “so much fun” in a 2022 Bridge Magazine interview.

Hays’ transition to music with Dick in My Nightstand was a natural extension of her comedic brand, blending her love for country music with her knack for storytelling. Her official website, danaehays.com, serves as a hub for her comedy tour dates, merchandise, and music updates, including her ongoing “The First Time Tour.” Fans can connect with her on Facebook, where she shares behind-the-scenes content, and on X, where she engages with her audience, often responding to comments about her music. Her Instagram showcases personal moments, including her golfing hobby and tour life. While no dedicated fan websites were found, the Danae Hays Fan Club on Facebook is a vibrant community where “Zoo Freaks” and other fans share memes, tour photos, and discuss her music, often quoting Dick in My Nightstand lyrics. Hays’ authenticity and inclusivity, especially as an openly queer artist, continue to resonate, with fans on TikTok praising her for representing same-sex relationships in her content.