Can't Stand the Heartache

The song Can't Stand the Heartache from Skid Row's self-titled debut album, released in 1989, is a high-energy glam metal track that captures the band's raw edge and catchy songwriting. While not released as a single, it has been celebrated by fans for its infectious chorus and screeching guitar solo. On X, the band posted on January 24, 2023, celebrating the album’s anniversary and asking fans which song they had on repeat, with Can't Stand the Heartache listed among favorites like Youth Gone Wild and 18 and Life. Some fans on Reddit’s hairmetal community have noted that the song feels slightly out of place on the album, describing it as having a “cheesy glam feel” or a “Bon Jovi-esque” vibe, possibly due to producer influence aiming for radio appeal. Despite this, its driving rhythm and Sebastian Bach’s powerful vocals make it a standout, with one reviewer on Encyclopaedia Metallum praising its ability to evoke nostalgic memories of the late ’80s, calling it a track that “transports me to an era of kitchen-phone answering, limited channel surfing, mixtape recording, technologically ignorant bliss.”

Another piece of trivia about Can't Stand the Heartache ties to its lyrical content, which paints a vivid picture of a doomed romance with a “twisted lady” and a “cover girl.” The lyrics, penned by bassist Rachel Bolan and guitarist Dave “Snake” Sabo, reflect the band’s knack for storytelling, a hallmark of their debut album. While the song didn’t get a music video like 18 and Life or I Remember You, its commercial appeal was evident, with one fan on Lana Teramae’s blog questioning why it wasn’t chosen as a single, citing its catchy chorus and strong beat as perfect for radio play. The song’s production, handled by Michael Wagener, gives it a polished yet gritty sound, aligning with Skid Row’s blend of heavy metal and pop sensibilities. Fans on Facebook often mention it as an underrated gem, with some calling it a “kick-ass” track that deserves more recognition alongside the album’s bigger hits.

Skid Row was formed in 1986 in Toms River, New Jersey, when guitarist Dave “Snake” Sabo met bassist Rachel Bolan at a local music store, Garden State Music. The two bonded over shared musical influences like Kiss and Judas Priest, and began jamming in Bolan’s parents’ garage. Sabo, who had a childhood friendship with Jon Bon Jovi, leveraged this connection to gain early exposure. After Bon Jovi’s success, Sabo and Bon Jovi had a pact to help each other out, which led to Skid Row opening for Bon Jovi’s Slippery When Wet tour in 1987. Guitarist Scotti Hill joined from Bolan’s previous band, and drummer Rob Affuso, a Rush tribute band veteran, was recruited through a connection with Bon Jovi’s keyboardist David Bryan. The band initially struggled with singer Matt Fallon, who lacked the drive of the other members, prompting manager Doc McGhee to suggest replacing him. Sebastian Bach, a charismatic frontman with a powerful voice, joined in 1987 after being spotted by McGhee, completing the classic lineup. Their debut album, recorded in Lake Geneva, Wisconsin, with producer Michael Wagener, catapulted them to fame, going 5× platinum and spawning hits that dominated MTV.

Skid Row maintains an active online presence, engaging fans through their official website, Facebook, Instagram, and X accounts, where they share tour updates, merchandise, and throwbacks like the 1989 album anniversary post. Fans can connect through communities like the Skid Row Fan Club on Facebook, a group with thousands of members sharing memories, concert photos, and discussions about the band’s legacy. Another fan hub, Hair and Flannel, offers detailed reviews and stories about Skid Row’s music, celebrating their debut as a cornerstone of ’80s hair metal. These platforms keep the Zoo Freaks and other fans connected to the band’s enduring influence, whether they’re spinning Can’t Stand the Heartache or reliving the glory days of the Moscow Music Peace Festival.